Sometimes people will go through scenarios that are very difficult for them.
And Jessica, just because you aren't get the emotion you want from them, doesn't mean you did anything wrong. It just means for a little while, they might not be #1 on their mind, and I promise you, that is okay.
It just means, you have to be there for them THAT much more and you have to be strong for them.
You have to remember that just because they aren't very happy at the moment, doesn't mean they aren't happy with you, it just means they have a lot on their mind and can't focus on you 100%.
So, Jessica, I beg of you.. don't take everything so personally and don't be so insecure. You have no good reasonings to feel this way. You are loved. I swear, I really, really do.